Decision making uses up a considerable amount of energy. Making a decision is a quantum process; the energy builds up in the act of assessing the situation and then becomes the fuel of the transformation or action that we decide upon, when the decision is made.
If we are always assessing a situation and never actually deciding, we are depleting our energy reserves.
If I am always wondering if this job is right for me and never actually deciding, I am likely to spend much of my time tired. (It is quite possible that I will lay the blame for that tiredness on the job itself, where it does not actually belong.)
On top of that, clear commitment, which is what we arrive at when we make a decision, has an entire energy source of its own. That energy source can be drawn upon to assist with any committed action. I like to call this energy source synchronicity.
Indecision is lethal to our energy systems.
I in no way advocate rushing important decisions, but I do advocate conscious, self-supportive decision making.
One way to begin to be responsible in your decision making is to set clear boundaries around when we are going to decide. Set times where I will do the thing, wholeheartedly and times where I will take that experience and look at it in a particular time, with particular criteria that I will assess against. (This means that I will have some idea of what I want .) For example: “I will be in this relationship for three months, after that time, I will officially sit down and see if I am getting my particular needs met. (These are my needs/wants) I will assess the situation in the two days that I have set aside for myself, and will decide if I would like to remain for another set period and I will schedule my next assessment time.”
Structured decision making works in two ways. Firstly, if I have agreed with myself to commit, and give my relationship my all for a period of time, I am able to experience what the relationship is actually like, functioning as I would like it to function, as something that I have committed to. There is no accuracy in judging how you will feel at the show when what you are witnessing is an early proposal presentation.
Secondly, it means that I can experience the relation without the energetic and emotional stress of indecision. This will mean that I can observe the relationship more accurately. Additionally, I am able to observe more clearly if I can reserve any judgments or the need for conclusions along the way.
Today I will ask myself if I am constantly in indecision about any area of my life.
Today I will consider how conscious I am about my decision making process.
Today I will look at how boundaries around untimely assessments might enhance my energy reserves and my personal clarity.
If we are always assessing a situation and never actually deciding, we are depleting our energy reserves.
If I am always wondering if this job is right for me and never actually deciding, I am likely to spend much of my time tired. (It is quite possible that I will lay the blame for that tiredness on the job itself, where it does not actually belong.)
On top of that, clear commitment, which is what we arrive at when we make a decision, has an entire energy source of its own. That energy source can be drawn upon to assist with any committed action. I like to call this energy source synchronicity.
Indecision is lethal to our energy systems.
I in no way advocate rushing important decisions, but I do advocate conscious, self-supportive decision making.
One way to begin to be responsible in your decision making is to set clear boundaries around when we are going to decide. Set times where I will do the thing, wholeheartedly and times where I will take that experience and look at it in a particular time, with particular criteria that I will assess against. (This means that I will have some idea of what I want .) For example: “I will be in this relationship for three months, after that time, I will officially sit down and see if I am getting my particular needs met. (These are my needs/wants) I will assess the situation in the two days that I have set aside for myself, and will decide if I would like to remain for another set period and I will schedule my next assessment time.”
Structured decision making works in two ways. Firstly, if I have agreed with myself to commit, and give my relationship my all for a period of time, I am able to experience what the relationship is actually like, functioning as I would like it to function, as something that I have committed to. There is no accuracy in judging how you will feel at the show when what you are witnessing is an early proposal presentation.
Secondly, it means that I can experience the relation without the energetic and emotional stress of indecision. This will mean that I can observe the relationship more accurately. Additionally, I am able to observe more clearly if I can reserve any judgments or the need for conclusions along the way.
Today I will ask myself if I am constantly in indecision about any area of my life.
Today I will consider how conscious I am about my decision making process.
Today I will look at how boundaries around untimely assessments might enhance my energy reserves and my personal clarity.
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